I believe there are times when we enter into relationships expecting everything to be smooth, perfect and just the way we want it. This perspective of perfection ~ POP ~ will eventually manifest situations where we feel disappointed, frustrated, defensive, or resentful and maybe even get angry.
When it comes to relationships, there is no such thing as 100%. Life just does not work that way. The best way to avoid this pitfall is to adopt the Law of 80/20. This principle is grounded in the perspective that we are all wonderfully and uniquely perfectly imperfect people.