Have you ever woken up to find yourself in an intimate relationship where you knew you loved your partner very deeply but realized you were emotionally tired, spiritually drained and mentally confused?  Where you questioned whether your partner really loved you for who you are and not for what you can give to them?

Last week, I wrote about the perspective of surrender and making decisions without any attachment of AEOs - agendas, expectations and obligations.  In this post, I will take the concept of surrendering one step further by exploring the nature of when giving is not giving in regards to our intimate relationship.